Mutual Masturbation 101: Tips to Make It More Intimate and Intense

Jamie Lane
2026-04-01T02:36:40-07:00

Most couples searching for “mutual masturbation” want to feel closer, learn what turns their partner on, and enjoy low-pressure pleasure together. In this guide we share practical techniques, easy positions, and how SVAKOM’s app-controlled toys (including male masturbators) make mutual masturbation even more connected and exciting

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If you’ve searched for “mutual masturbation,” you probably have the same questions. Is it just watching each other? How do we make it feel intimate and intense? And can toys make it even better? Here are the honest answers based on real experiences and expert advice.

What Is Mutual Masturbation?

Mutual masturbation is when partners pleasure themselves or each other together. It can be as simple as lying side-by-side watching and touching, or as connected as using hands and toys together. It reduces performance pressure, helps you learn exactly what your partner loves, and creates a deeper sense of intimacy.

How to Do Mutual Masturbation: Step-by-Step for Couples

1. Start with open communication — tell your partner what feels good and what you want to try.

2. Create a relaxed atmosphere: dim lights, soft music, plenty of lube.

3. Choose your position: side-by-side, facing each other, or one on top of the other.

4. Start slow — eye contact and light touching build anticipation.

5. Incorporate toys when you’re ready — SVAKOM’s App-controlled collections even when you’re apart.

Key Benefits of Mutual Masturbation

Mutual masturbation isn’t just fun — it offers real, practical advantages that make it a favorite for many couples:

Safety first — If you’re only engaging in solo-touch while watching each other, there is virtually no risk of pregnancy or STI transmission. Even when using hands or shared toys, the risk remains very low. For extra peace of mind, consider latex gloves or condoms on fingers and toys.

Long-distance friendly — Perfect for couples who are apart or traveling. Simply hop on a video call and enjoy video intimacy that can get surprisingly intense. It works as both foreplay and the main experience.

Flexible and pressure-free — It can be foreplay before penetrative sex, the main event when you’re tired after a long day, not in the mood for period sex, easing into intimacy with a new partner, or recovering after trauma. It’s also ideal when you just want to get off without full intercourse.

Why SVAKOM Makes Mutual Masturbation Even More Intense

SVAKOM’s collections are perfect for mutual play. Try App-Controlled Toys Collection for synchronized pleasure, Rabbit Vibrators Collection for simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation, and Male Masturbators Collection for realistic pulse technology. If you’re not sure which collection is right for you, check our guide on how to choose the perfect vibrator.

Aftercare and Why Mutual Masturbation Strengthens Your Bond

After the pleasure, take time to cuddle, talk about what felt good, and reconnect. Regular mutual masturbation builds trust, improves communication, and turns sex into a deeper emotional experience.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Mutual Masturbation

Is mutual masturbation just watching each other?

It can be, but it’s even better when you touch each other or use toys together. SVAKOM app-controlled collections make it interactive and fun.

What positions work best for mutual masturbation?

Side-by-side, facing each other, or one partner leaning against the other — all allow easy access and eye contact.

Can toys make mutual masturbation better?

Absolutely. Explore the App-Controlled Toys Collection, Rabbit Vibrators Collection and Male Masturbators Collection for synchronized pleasure.

Is mutual masturbation safe?

Yes — it’s one of the lowest-risk ways to explore together. Always use lube and clean toys properly.

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