Mindblowing Tips to Improve Your Cunnilingus Skills

Posted by SVAKOM 12/03/2013 0 Comment(s) Testimonials,

Multiple studies have discovered that only 25% of women can enjoy climax through sexual penetration. What this means is the majority of women need a little extra help to reach that toe-curling orgasm. Too bad, isn't it?

Before you start

  Let us examine the female sexual anatomy. A woman reaching orgasm through oral sex has a lot to do with the clit. Allow me to put it more realistically this way: when it comes to orgasm, men are the sprinters, while women are the long-distance runners. 

  Even for penetrative sex, it takes a woman a long time to reach orgasm. The key to making her get there with nothing but your mouth is to take your time.

   You have to do it for her and not for you because the endgame is not to make her wet enough for you to thrust but to get her rocks off. 

  Do you want to improve your oral game from zero to hero? Ride along with us.

  Indirect first! 

  For the beginning of any cunnilingus session, indirect stimulation is vital. Be it her hundredth time or the first, the clitoris is extremely sensitive. Consequently, touching it alone can even be physically painful if the woman in question is not aroused. 

  Her jewel box is the main course, so start with the appetizers by kissing her nipples and lips - not the lips between her hips. Make sure to leave out touching her nether parts while giving her the time to adjust to the feel of your touch. Cunnilingus is an art form, a seductive ritual that involves the trust of the "licker" and the" lickee".

  Speak her Body Language 

  Gently explore her body to find out what she likes and what she finds uncomfortable. Remember, no two women are the same. In that regard, what works best for one may be the stuff of nightmares for the other.

  

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She may purr in arousal when you nibble her thighs but dislike having you kiss her neck. Gently trace your lips in circles around her nipples. Lick them the same way you would with her clitoris.

  Transition attention  

  Before you transition from light foreplay to oral sex proper, ensure you pay the utmost attention to her vulva's area rather than zeroing in on her clit. Once again, watch out for her response.

  Spend more time on the parts of her skin she enjoys. If your woman is wearing undies, lightly kiss her vulva through the material. You may decide at this point to use your teeth to take off her undies.

Are you nervous? 

If you're nervous about going to town on her, you may start by infusing light kisses on her outer vulva, incorporating that act with other hand action. Slowly slide your tongue at the junction between her inner thighs and torso. 

If you're doing everything right, chances are she's dripping wet right about now. You may take a swab of her fluids with your hand to taste her. Taking this action will help you to know whether you're comfortable investing her fluids.

Baby Steps

   Start by using your lips to nibble the outer flaps of her butterfly. Never head straight for the clit unless she specifically commands you to do so. No matter what you do, never blow air into her munch box, or you could seriously injure her. Use your tongue like a towel to lick her perineum before tracing the outlet lips with soft, gentle kisses.

Your Hands

While your lips are at play with her vagina, you can use your hands to heighten her arousal while making her more comfortable. It is recommended to stimulate other areas of her body that include:
 

  • Her butt
  • Her Nipples
  • Her thighs and stomach
  • Her hips

Touching these different erogenous zones may serve as a pleasant distraction, especially for women who are nervous about receiving cunnilingus. A few women would find the following toe-curling activities erotic:
 

  • Stick a finger into her mouth to lick and suck
  • If she has any, lightly run your fingers through her bush
  • Gently tug at her pubic hair
  • Use your hands to pinch the outer or inner labia lightly - some women do enjoy the feeling
  • Pull or push at the mons Veneris to increase sexual arousal or gently rub in circles.
  • When she is in a sexually heightened state, pinch or squeeze her nipples for she may desire a stronger stimulation
  • Simultaneously slip a finger in her butt as you carry out other activities. Note that you cannot use the same finger on her vulva until it is thoroughly cleaned.

 

Genital massage

  A genital massage is an act that is not only therapeutic; it also stimulates arousal. Similar to the typical massage, a genital massage is a pleasant precursor to the act of cunnilingus. 

However, you should avoid the use of oils when giving a genital massage. Instead, seek out a water-based lubricant to eliminate adverse reactions. Genital massage may be done before or after cunnilingus.

 

 

 

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Enter the Dragon 

Now that you've got her hot and bothered, it is time to dive in! Your mouth is a weapon, and you have got to use it to wreck a mind-blowing attack on her vagina that will leave her gasping for more. 

You have been eating, nibbling, sucking, and licking everywhere but not her clitoris. Now is the time to reward yourself for being patient!

First things first 

Before anything else, lick the entire surface of her vulva like a mop wiping the floor. Do it until she is intensely aroused. After that, stealthily approach her clitoris with nothing but your tongue. 

Start by prying open the folds of her labia with your fingers, no nails, please! Next, slide your tongue up and down the ridges alongside her clitoris, focusing on the gap between the outer and inner labia. 

Nibble gently, you do not want to hurt her. Try to kiss her vulva the same way you would kiss her mouth. Do not limit her pleasure to your tongue; use your entire mouth on her vulva like you are eating ice cream on a hot Sunday afternoon. The secret is in taking it slow.

The Lazy Circle

  Have you ever heard of the lazy circle? If you haven't, now is the right time. The lazy circle is a tongue movement that is guaranteed to have your lover pulling at your hair. You slowly circle her clit with your tongue. Remember not to dive straight in like a kamikaze pilot. Start by teasing the sides of the clitoral hood. 

Now is the time to keenly watch out for her body response. Notice how she reacts to the pressure of your tongue on her clit. At this point, you need to concentrate your attention on her body as you trace your circle. 

If she is in convulsions, you are most likely doing something right, albeit exerting too much pressure. If she's quivering, that's another sign you need to apply the brake pedal and concentrate on less sensitive areas.

Clitoral stimulation 101

  Gently flick your tongue across the shaft of her clit using side strokes. You may flick over the clitoral hood, but that can be too sensitive for some women.

The ideal approach is to go at it from the side. Subsequently, use the flat of your tongue to wipe the hood before reverting to light flicks. This act is sure to make her toes curl. Continue to flick while watching her responses to the pressure.

Her needs may vary depending on the state of her arousal. She may want a firmer tongue on the side of her clit or a rapid flickering over the hood that causes her genitals to engorge, tensing her pelvic muscles. Keep doing what you are doing because you are just getting started.

Tongue technique

  All tongues are not made equal, but you can only try! However. Before you start eating her, you need to understand the tongue techniques that is sure to send her wild. You can begin by practicing the following steps:
 

  • Wash your hands or elbow
  • lick the hollow of your elbow to
  • Notice how your tongue gets dry and wets itself after a while
  • Try to adjust the pressure of your language on your angle, and it will help you when it is time to practice with your lover

 

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Appreciate your mouth

  When it comes to making a woman feel good, your mouth is a deal-breaker. Therefore, make an effort to pamper your mouth like the sex weapon it is. 

You must keep your lips moist and soft, making sure to exfoliate weekly. Endeavor to brush your teeth regularly, taking particular care with the tongue. See below some of the great things you can do with your mouth:
 

  • Nibble the outer and inner labia, including the clitoral hood.
  • Cover the vulva with your whole mouth
  • Weaponize your tongue like a spear to penetrate her vagina or turn it into a mopping stick to clean up her juices
  • Suck at her clit with gentle movements and only with the lips - no teeth.

 

To round it off, there are many techniques for cunnilingus. The key is to pick the ones that work well for your partner while spending more time on the parts of her vagina; she finds pleasurable.