语言塑造了我们如何看待、命名和尊重我们周围的世界。
在关于性别和性取向多样性的对话中，我们经常听到一些并非人人都理解的术语。
LGBTQIA+是什么意思？ L 代表 女同性恋 G 代表 男同性恋 B 代表 双性恋 T 代表 跨性别 代表 酷儿/疑问 代表 双性人 代表 无性恋
“+ ” 包含了这些字母之外的一切：提醒我们人类的多样性无法被缩写词所限制。
性取向 指的是你在情感上、浪漫上或性方面被谁吸引。
异性恋： 被不同性别吸引。
同性恋： 被相同性别吸引。
双性恋： 被多于一种性别吸引。
泛性恋： 不论性别被人吸引。
无性恋： 几乎没有或没有性吸引的体验。
性别认同 这是你如何感知自己以及内心对自己性别的感受。
性别认同是非常个人的：它不是外在可见的，而是内心感受到的。
性别表达 你如何通过服装、风格、肢体语言或声音来展现你的性别。阳刚 、阴柔 、中性 ，或介于两者之间。
双性人 双性人生来具有不符合典型“男性”或“女性”定义的生物特征（如染色体、激素或解剖结构）。
你可能听到的其他词汇
酷儿： 曾是侮辱词，现在被自豪地重新定义为任何身份或取向超出常规的人使用的术语。
盟友： 不是LGBTQ+成员，但以同理心和行动支持该群体的人。
骄傲： 不仅是庆祝——更是可见性、平等和各种形式的爱的宣言。
常见错误需避免
说 “性偏好” 而不是 “性取向”
假设性别认同和性取向是相同的——它们不是。
否定不符合二元或传统类别的人。
在 SVAKOM ，我们相信快乐始于理解，而理解始于语言。
因为多样性不仅仅是需要了解的东西。
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