Self-pleasure is so often reduced to an outcome — a technique, an orgasm, a box to check. But it can be something far more meaningful: a homecoming to your own body and sensations. In this personal and insightful piece, Sexological Bodyworker Johanna Debes explores why so many women lose touch with their desire, how self-pleasure rebuilds body knowledge and confidence, and why approaching it with curiosity instead of pressure changes everything.
If you don’t know what “yoni” means, think again. In Sanskrit, “yoni” is often used to refer to the womb, vulva, vagina, or female genital area more broadly.
Wondering if you should be doing pelvic floor exercises? Learn the key signs of a weak pelvic floor, who benefits most from Kegels, when Kegels can do more harm than good, and how to start safely.
A clitoral orgasm is often the most reliable and intense type of orgasm for many people with vulvas. In this guide, I explain what a clitoral orgasm actually feels like, why most people need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and how to explore it safely and pleasurably. We’ll also touch on how it compares to vaginal orgasms.
Having sex during pregnancy is one of those topics that, for no real reason, crosses the line into taboo territory and gets lost in the meadows. Today, we want to dive right into it, not with the goal of making pregnant sex feel sexy again, but with the desire to understand how you can adapt your sex life to a body that’s changing week by week.
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