Klitty Review: Does This Cat-Shaped Vibrator Deliver a Unique Pleasure Experience?
by Shaye A.
My Journey: Redefining Pleasure in My 40s
There’s a knock at my door and I must say that I was skeptical, yet excited about what was waiting inside this delivery. I’ve been redefining my idea of what pleasure looks and feels like, and it has helped me in other aspects of life. Whether I’m providing pleasure or educating others about it, I’m trusted to deliver with full transparency, and this is one of those moments. Being in my early 40s, happily divorced and going through the crazy journey of perimenopause, I’m offering a different perspective of what pleasure represents with years of lived experience in intimate settings.
With being active in the BDSM/kink subculture for the past seven and a half years, I’m often trying and testing things to add to what I describe as my “arsenal of pleasure tools”.
How Klitty Changed My View on App-Controlled Toys
Sex toys, floggers, paddles, restraints, lubricants and more are utilized to provide an authentic and customized experience my partners. So, did I ever think that I’d be entertaining the idea of adding tech powered toys to my collection? Absolutely not, but Klitty has played a huge role in shifting my thought process on where Bluetooth powered devices backed with a customized app can incorporate its way in acts of intimacy and the expansion of how we seek pleasure.
First Impressions: Design, Texture & the Licking + Sucking Experience
The sleek design with beautiful hues of purple took me back to my days in the beauty industry selling bottles of Calvin Klein’s Euphoria. Curves galore, set with deep mouth-like features to become one with the shape and grooves of my core and coated with a velvety texture that felt like skin was something I’ve never experienced with a toy before. And ooh, I cannot forget the multiple licking AND sucking features, what more could I ask for?
Why Clitoral Stimulation Is the Dream for So Many Women
After my delightful experience with Klitty, I asked a few of my girlfriends before writing this, what’s their toy’s purpose? Is it to assist with exploring your body in ways you didn’t think was possible because of shame? To reach your peak from clitoral and or penetrative stimulation? Quite a few stated that clitoral stimulation is there go to and Klitty sounds like their dream toy.
Long-Distance Pleasure: Syncing Songs & Handing Over Control with the Svakom App
Take a woman like my best friend B. for example, she’s part of a demographic of women who are on the go and in a different state every few days for a living. She’s been a tech lover and an avid gamer/Sims player for as long as I can remember. Her work hours are long and very lonely, so the operating features and customization options through the SVAKOM App are perfect for the love life with long distance companionships. I told her, imagine syncing sexy songs that get you both in the mood, relinquishing power by letting your person miles away control the rhythm and the tempo... (of the Klitty that is) to provide you with a uniquely personalized experience.
The Pleasure Gap: Why Women Still Need More Options
Being a movie and television buff, over the years I have watched so many shows and documentaries speaking about the progression and acceptance of sex toys, dolls and apps designed with the focus of men finding pleasure and compatibility in mind.
Designed with the finest and specific details to create the ideal companion for pleasure in the privacy of their own home, virtually and in person. From the perfect shade of hair, bust measurements, tone of voice to say their names, to the fullness of the lips.
Just like the orgasm gap, why is it harder for women to have these same options and experiences? Yes, it’s still very taboo for some, but according to the Global Market insights (GMI), the sex toy industry is on track of becoming a $102 billion industry by the year 2035. Yes, I’m one who appreciates seeing that this is taking place, but I wonder if these options geared towards women will even out the playing field of pleasure.
Final Thoughts: One Lick, One Suction at a Time
Like the saying goes, only time will tell and until then… Klitty is a fabulous options available to satisfy our needs with one lick, one suction at a time.
Shaye A., known as Bodacious Beautee, is a Houston, Texas–based BDSM and kink content creator with 18 years of experience in the beauty industry as a certified professional makeup artist and educator. She brings her experience in beauty, self-expression, and personal confidence into the sexual wellness community.
Shaye is also pursuing her journey as an Intimacy Coordinator for television and film and as a certified Sexologist. Through her work, she encourages exploration, self-acceptance, and open conversations around sexuality. As a visibly disabled woman, her mission is to inspire people to embrace their individuality, explore intimacy without limitations, and feel empowered at every stage of life.
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