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女性之间的性行为更令人愉悦吗？让我们来谈谈这个话题

by Estef Palacios

Is Sex Between Women More Pleasurable? Let’s Talk About It

多年来，快感一直被狭隘地诠释：以异性恋规范为中心，聚焦于阴茎、穿透和男性高潮。
但在LGBTQ+社区中的性行为又如何呢？

发表在《性行为档案》上的一项研究发现，86%的女同性恋女性在性接触中达到高潮，而异性恋关系中的女性仅有65%。

那么，这种差异背后是什么原因呢？

压力更小。沟通更多。

在女性之间的关系中，通常会有更多关于什么感觉好、什么不舒服以及每个人真正渴望的开放沟通。

相比之下，许多异性恋情侣仍然受到羞耻感或禁忌的困扰，阻碍了他们探索和理解彼此的快感。

坦诚地谈论性——不害怕伤害任何人的自尊——改变了一切。

性行为并非全是穿透

大多数女性之间的性行为并不单纯以穿透为中心，而是全身的刺激。

阴蒂——这个拥有超过一万个神经末梢的神奇器官——成为焦点，伴随着亲吻、触摸、摩擦、玩具和口交。

没有单一的“正确方式”。
每一次相遇都可以不同：更具创造性、更感官化、更自由。

快感持续更久（且不以高潮衡量）

对许多人来说，快感不仅仅由高潮定义。

有更多的前戏、更多的探索、更深的情感连接，以及更少的急迫感。

这是一种没有计时器的性爱：专注于感受，而非表现。

我们能从中学到什么？

说女同性恋的性爱“更好”并不是在比较：而是在重新思考我们认为什么是美好的性爱。

传统的异性恋模式可以从这种方式中学到很多：沟通、尊重、好奇和时间。

快感没有性取向：它需要练习、关注和关怀。

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