LGBTQIA+ 基础知识:理解多样性的简单指南

LGBTQIA+ Basics: A Simple Guide to Understanding Diversity

语言塑造了我们如何看待、命名和尊重我们周围的世界。

当我们给某样东西命名时,我们使它变得可见,而可见性是一种强有力的尊重行为。

在关于性别和性取向多样性的对话中,我们经常听到一些并非人人都理解的术语。

所以,让我们花点时间来探索它们:清晰、冷静,并怀着连接的意图。

 

LGBTQIA+是什么意思?

L 代表 女同性恋
G 代表 男同性恋
B 代表 双性恋
T 代表 跨性别
Q
代表 酷儿/疑问
I
代表 双性人
A
代表 无性恋

+” 包含了这些字母之外的一切:提醒我们人类的多样性无法被缩写词所限制。





性取向

指的是你在情感上、浪漫上或性方面被谁吸引。

  • 异性恋:被不同性别吸引。

  • 同性恋:被相同性别吸引。

  • 双性恋:被多于一种性别吸引。

  • 泛性恋:不论性别被人吸引。

  • 无性恋:几乎没有或没有性吸引的体验。


性别认同

这是你如何感知自己以及内心对自己性别的感受。

  • 顺性别:当你的性别认同与你出生时被指定的性别相符。

  • 跨性别:当不相符时。

  • 非二元性别:当你不完全认同为男性或女性时。

  • 性别流动:当你的认同随时间变化。

性别认同是非常个人的:它不是外在可见的,而是内心感受到的。

性别表达

你如何通过服装、风格、肢体语言或声音来展现你的性别。
你的表达可以是 阳刚阴柔中性,或介于两者之间。
这是一种自我表达的形式,而非定义,也不一定与性取向或性别认同相符。

双性人

双性人生来具有不符合典型“男性”或“女性”定义的生物特征(如染色体、激素或解剖结构)。

这是自然的,是人类的一部分,也是我们物种令人难以置信的多样性的一部分。
最重要的是拥有选择、定义和存在的权利,不受医疗或社会的强加。

你可能听到的其他词汇

  • 酷儿:曾是侮辱词,现在被自豪地重新定义为任何身份或取向超出常规的人使用的术语。

  • 盟友:不是LGBTQ+成员,但以同理心和行动支持该群体的人。

  • 骄傲:不仅是庆祝——更是可见性、平等和各种形式的爱的宣言。


常见错误需避免

  • “性偏好” 而不是 “性取向”

  • 假设性别认同和性取向是相同的——它们不是。

  • 否定不符合二元或传统类别的人。


SVAKOM,我们相信快乐始于理解,而理解始于语言。

当我们学会以同理心谈论身份时,我们为每个人创造了被看见、被尊重并自由真实存在的空间。

因为多样性不仅仅是需要了解的东西。
它是值得庆祝的。


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