多年来,快感一直被狭隘地诠释:以异性恋规范为中心,聚焦于阴茎、穿透和男性高潮。 但在LGBTQ+社区中的性行为又如何呢?
发表在《性行为档案》上的一项研究发现,86%的女同性恋女性在性接触中达到高潮,而异性恋关系中的女性仅有65%。
那么,这种差异背后是什么原因呢?
压力更小。沟通更多。
在女性之间的关系中,通常会有更多关于什么感觉好、什么不舒服以及每个人真正渴望的开放沟通。
相比之下,许多异性恋情侣仍然受到羞耻感或禁忌的困扰,阻碍了他们探索和理解彼此的快感。
坦诚地谈论性——不害怕伤害任何人的自尊——改变了一切。
更多的身体共情
女性从经验中理解女性性唤起的运作方式:它并不总是立刻发生,不是每个人都喜欢同样的触摸方式,润滑程度也会有所不同。 这种共同的理解使亲密关系更加耐心、更有意识,并更专注于真正的快感 ——而不仅仅是“达到终点”。
性行为并非全是穿透
大多数女性之间的性行为并不单纯以穿透为中心,而是全身的刺激。 阴蒂——这个拥有超过一万个神经末梢的神奇器官——成为焦点,伴随着亲吻、触摸、摩擦、玩具和口交。
没有单一的“正确方式”。 每一次相遇都可以不同:更具创造性、更感官化、更自由。
快感持续更久(且不以高潮衡量)
对许多人来说,快感不仅仅由高潮定义。 有更多的前戏、更多的探索、更深的情感连接,以及更少的急迫感。 这是一种没有计时器的性爱:专注于感受 ,而非表现。
我们能从中学到什么?
说女同性恋的性爱“更好”并不是在比较:而是在重新思考我们认为什么是美好的性爱。 传统的异性恋模式可以从这种方式中学到很多:沟通、尊重、好奇和时间。
快感没有性取向:它需要练习、关注和关怀。
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