将性玩具引入BDSM的3个技巧

3 Tips For Introducing Sex Toys Into BDSM

很多人对BDSM有错误的印象。我们往往认为它必须是黑暗的、阴郁的、极其严肃的。有时,它确实可以是这些。但这并不意味着它只能是这些。它也可以是有趣的、顽皮的和亲密的。


今天,我们将介绍三种在BDSM游戏中使用性玩具的不同方式。首先,让我们先了解一些关键原则。


性玩具与束缚简介

如果你正在这个网站上阅读这段内容,我们大概不需要对BDSM做定义。但了解性玩具在BDSM中的作用仍然很重要。


在性癖方面,性玩具主要分为四大类:

  • 冲击玩具,如鞭子、软鞭、手杖和打屁股板。

  • 感官玩具,如震动器、羽毛、冰块和瓦滕伯格轮。

  • 电刺激玩具,如TENS装置和紫罗兰棒,这在这个大类中是一个小众领域。

  • 贞操与控制装置,如笼子、夹子、束缚装置,我们还认为包括应用控制的性玩具。


既然BDSM本质上就是实验,选择适合你性癖好的性玩具时,考虑这些类别会很有帮助。与任何BDSM伴侣协商兴趣和界限也至关重要,否则最多只能是单方面的体验。


性玩具与感官游戏

当身体的一个或多个感官被限制或减弱时,其他感官会被增强以补偿。这一点对于理解BDSM中快感的增强非常重要,而它如何转化为性体验也很简单:你可以像指挥乐团一样掌控这些感觉。

从视觉开始。我们比起其他感官更依赖视觉,它是我们大多数人导航世界的方式。如果你限制视觉,触觉会特别增强,帮助我们在黑暗中更安全地移动。戴上眼罩时,我们对身体触摸变得极其敏感。

 


这就是分层概念的体现。对于戴着眼罩的伴侣,你可以用像CICI 2这样低档、带有痒感的震动器刺激一个敏感区,然后再用更强烈的震动器,比如IRIS,刺激另一个更敏感的区域。先刺激乳头,再加上阴蒂震动器,快感会非常强烈。

 

💡 使用建议

好,听我说。眼罩很棒。非常棒。无可挑剔。我们喜欢它们。但还有另一种东西,叫做Mindfold。

这是一种睁眼眼罩。你可以在家用一些便宜的滑雪护目镜并将镜片涂黑,或者用那些把手机放进去的廉价VR套件来制作。睁着眼睛却看不见,是一种全新的内省且强烈的快感体验。

相信我们这次的推荐:如果你想尝试新的BDSM体验,先试试这个再做其他事情。强烈推荐。

 


性玩具与束缚

束缚是BDSM的基石,也是大多数人的起点。绑手绑脚,绑在物体上,或者更冒险的,悬吊在绳艺中,不仅仅是性:它成为艺术。许多人仅仅被束缚的感觉就足以激发性欲。对于我们这些最终变得奇趣的人来说,这往往是我们还不懂幻想时的幻想。

BDSM束缚关乎权力与无力感。它是放弃控制。加入性玩具会让体验提升到无法衡量的高度:当你被束缚无法反抗时使用性玩具,对许多人来说是性体验的巅峰。

💡 使用建议

找一把带有靠背条板的木质餐椅。将伴侣赤裸束缚,坐直,双手绑在椅背后,脚踝绑在椅腿上。(使用麻绳以增强感觉。眼罩可选,但更佳。)插入NOVA球,或者如果他们有阴茎,戴上WINNI 2。然后用类似魔杖的震动器,如MINI EMMA NEO刺激他们的其他敏感区。全程说脏话,真的很脏。



高潮控制与剥夺

这需要练习,但……是有趣的那种。高潮控制意味着完全将快感的控制权交给伴侣,由他们决定你是否达到高潮。这就像边缘刺激,但更具奇趣。

几乎所有SVAKOM性玩具都支持应用控制,可以让远在房间另一端或世界另一边的伴侣掌控。为了本练习,假设你们在一起。

高潮控制需要灵巧的手法,但结合以上所有技巧,你可以学会像演奏乐器一样操控伴侣的身体。束缚他们,戴上眼罩,使用多个连接SVAKOM应用的玩具,尝试各种玩法,让他们接近高潮,再拉开距离,增强或减弱感觉,折磨和惹恼他们,直到允许高潮的那一刻将他们淹没。这样高潮会更加强烈。

 

💡 使用建议

让他们礼貌地请求高潮许可。这总是很性感。别忽视这之后的关怀,这可能是一次极其强烈的体验。



束缚即自由

将性玩具引入BDSM不仅能增强你的身体快感,还能提升亲密感和连接感。根据我们的经验,BDSM关系往往比普通关系更强烈、更热情,因此性玩具是你浪漫与奇趣武器库中的关键利器。

无论你处于BDSM旅程的哪个阶段,真正决定成败的是信任、尊重和开放的沟通。所以先从这些开始努力。

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斯图·纽金特

性玩具资深人士,快感行业的老水手

曾登上VICE 滚石 大都会 福布斯

Stu Nugent是性玩具行业拥有20年经验的资深人士,是快感行业的老水手。在这段时间里,他积累了无与伦比的经验和专业知识,并曾在VICE、滚石杂志、Cosmopolitan和福布斯上亮相。他与所有主要品牌和零售商都有合作。

Stu对诚实的承诺是完全的,他的忠诚始终属于客户。Stu以无废话的态度进入性玩具行业,倡导使用简单、易懂的语言以及在性健康和保健方面的包容性。

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