双性恋意识日,也被称为庆祝双性恋日或双性恋可见日,每年9月23日庆祝。但这个日子是怎么来的呢?让我们快速回顾一下历史。
“双性恋社区力量在增长,但在许多方面我们仍然是隐形的。” – 吉吉·雷文·威尔伯
在1990年代,双性恋组织开始在美国各地涌现,但双性恋者仍然觉得自己是LGBTQ+字母汤中的“隐形字母”。这时,温迪·库里、迈克尔·佩奇和吉吉·雷文·威尔伯三位充满热情的活动家决定不再沉默。在1999年国际女同性恋、男同性恋、双性恋、跨性别和双性人协会(ILGA)大会上,他们正式发起了双性恋意识日,旨在聚焦双性恋社区。
为什么选择9月23日?因为这一天是吉吉·雷文·威尔伯和传奇歌手弗雷迪·默丘里的生日。如果有人能代表双性恋的可见性,那就是弗雷迪。这个日期向偶像和活动家们致敬。
尽管自那时以来取得了进展,双性恋者仍然面临“双性恋抹消”——即使在LGBTQ+空间内,也常被忽视或身份被否定。正如吉吉·雷文·威尔伯曾说:“双性恋社区力量在增长,但在许多方面我们仍然是隐形的。”这就是为什么双性恋意识日如此重要:这是一个被看见、被听见和被庆祝的机会。
你知道吗?
大约一半的LGBTQ+社区成员认同自己是双性恋。这是巨大的双性恋自豪感!
双性恋骄傲旗帜由迈克尔·佩奇于1998年设计:就在双性恋意识日诞生的前一年。
著名的双性恋偶像包括弗雷迪·默丘里、Lady Gaga、大卫·鲍伊和梅根·福克斯。(真是星光熠熠的阵容!)
破解关于双性恋的误解
让我们澄清一些关于双性恋的常见误解(双关语意在其中):
误解1:“这只是一个阶段。” 当然,有些人可能会在找到适合自己的标签之前探索不同的身份,但对许多人来说,双性恋是一种有效且终生的性取向。它不是通往同性恋或异性恋的中转站。
误解2:“双性恋者只是困惑,或者害怕出柜成同性恋。” 不是的。双性恋意味着被多种性别吸引,这不是困惑——这只是某些人的天性。吸引力可能会变化,但这并不意味着它不真实。
误解3:“如果你和异性约会,你就不再是双性恋了。” 这是一个经典误区。双性恋不是由你当前的恋爱状态定义的。无论你是约会中、单身还是介于两者之间,你的性取向依然有效。
遗憾的是,这些误解可能导致双性恋者感到隐形或被迫“选边站”。但事实是,双性恋和其他身份一样真实且坚韧。
为什么双性恋值得尊重
双性恋不是一个阶段、潮流或中途停留。它是一种合法的性取向,每个双性恋者都有自己独特的体验。尊重双性恋意味着打破刻板印象,挑战双性恋恐惧症,并在每一次对话中为双性恋声音腾出空间。
可见性很重要。当双性恋者被看见和庆祝时,这鼓励其他人真实地生活,并帮助创造一个每个人都能无惧无悔地爱自己所爱之人的世界。
所以,在双性恋意识日(以及每一天),让我们为LGBTQ+中的B送上爱。因为每个人都值得被看见,成为真正的自己——无论是谁让他们的心跳加速。
如何成为出色的双性恋盟友
想支持你的双性恋朋友、家人或同事吗?这里有成为顶级盟友的方法:
不要根据某人的伴侣来假设他们的性取向。
当你听到双性恋恐惧的笑话或刻板印象时,要勇于挑战。
庆祝双性恋可见日,分享积极的双性恋内容。
倾听并支持双性恋声音——每个人都喜欢多一点支持!
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