Why Testicle Massage Feels Good: The Science Behind the Sensation
by Giulia M.
If you’re a woman, you might not understand the different sensations guys feel when their balls are touched. To be honest, there are two very different types of reactions to testicles being touched: it’s either a “Hell yes!” or an “Absolutely not.” Let’s explore why, and how you can approach the topic with care.
Balls Are Sensitive. That’s Kind of the Point.
Everyone knows balls are Handle with Care territory, but have you ever wondered why? Put simply, testicles are an area of the male body that is filled with nerve endings and characterized by very thin skin. In other words, if women have an internal reproductive system, with the nerve endings exposed mostly through the clit, guys have it all out there in plain sight.
Why Slow Touch Feels So Good
Some guys don’t want their balls to be touched at all. That’s a personal preference. But the ones who like it usually appreciate a soft and slow kind of touch. The reason behind this is simple: slow movements allow the nervous system to decompress and enjoy the moment. Arousal isn’t linked to feeling rushed, but to feeling relaxed. Therefore, guys often get most aroused when touch to the testicles is unrushed, but still confident.
Testicle Massage Benefits, Without the Weird Claims
Science doesn’t really tell us much about the possible benefits of massaging the testicles. But sticking to simple evidence is often the most reassuring way to approach these practices. Besides providing enjoyable sensations, touching your partner’s testicles is perhaps one of the most intimate ways to give him pleasure. It’s a vulnerable thing to do. And it definitely puts most guys in the most enlightened state they can think of, which sets the tone for a hot kind of interaction.
How to Massage Testicles Without Killing the Vibe
If you are afraid to start, or suggest it, you shouldn’t be. Most guys like this, and they will tell you if they simply don’t want you to try it. Start around the area, and work your way up to them. Tease him by touching the inner thighs, the shaft, the perineum… If you have long nails, be very careful about the way you move your hands. Lube might also be a very good ally, since it will reduce friction and add a slightly cold sensation to the mix.
Want to Add a Toy? Start Around the Area
After you’ve experimented a bit, you can also try adding toys to the experience. Yes, guys love it when you take the initiative and experiment with some new toys. And no, you probably shouldn’t use anything too aggressive directly on the balls. Using a small vibrator is the best way to start if you want to maintain absolute control over where the pressure is going. A prostate vibrator like Vick Neo 2 can be used externally for starters. While, if you truly want to surprise your partner and take him directly to cloud nine, Benedict is the kind of toy you’re looking for. A double-ring perineum stimulator, it provides stimulation to both the balls and the perineum area.
Final Thought: Pleasure Loves Attention
The rule of thumb is that not everyone might like the same things, but everyone is allowed to change their mind. Experimenting with sex often leads us to discover new sensations we never thought we’d like. And that’s exactly the point!
When touching the balls, gentle is always a good place to start. Remember to check in with your partner for sensations, and slow down or stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable. Stay curious, and enjoy the ride.
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