How to Use a Wand Vibrator

How to Use a Wand Vibrator

Wand vibrators are an essential sex toy for many adults because of their power and versatility. Some say they look like a classic handheld microphone while others think they resemble a waffle cone with one scoop of ice-cream on top. However you describe their appearance, wand vibrators have come a long way over the decades and the latest SVAKOM Emma Neo Series is a prime example.  

What is a wand vibrator?

Wand vibrators are among the most versatile sex toys around. Suitable for adults of any gender and available in a wide range of designs, they can be used to stimulate erogenous zones or deliver soothing massage.

Also known as wand massager, these sex toys are ideal for those who prefer strong, powerful vibration that covers broader, rather than pinpoint, areas. If you want to focus vibration at a precise hotspot, consider bullet vibrators.

The SVAKOM Emma Neo Series includes two wand vibrators that include exciting updates to the original models. Emma Neo 2 supersedes Emma Neo, while Mini Emma Neo is the latest version of Mini Emma. So, let’s take a closer look at these new sex toys as we consider the main reasons for using a wand vibrator.

Why use a wand vibrator?

There are many reasons for using a wand vibrator wand, and if they had to be summarized these would be our top five…

1. Powerful clitoral stimulation

The clitoris is the only organ believed to exist just for pleasure. A wand vibrator is perfect for stimulating the clitoris with minimal effort thanks to its large, round head. 

The SVAKOM Emma Neo Series encourages clitoral orgasms by sending powerful vibrations from the wand head to the clitoris. Every clitoris differs in its level of sensitivity and response to sex toys. 

If you want particularly deep, rumbling vibrating stimulation, go for Emma Neo 2. Take it slowly and get familiar with how this particular wand vibrator feels for you. Then, have fun experimenting with settings and the rabbit ears attachment which adds pleasurable flicking sensations to the vibration. It’s available with Emma Neo 2 only. The same goes for spectacular lights on the base which change color and brightness with vibration modes and intensities.

2. Broad stimulation and massage

Compared to other sex toys, such as bullet vibrators which have a tapered tip, wand vibrators cover a broader area. The wide head of a wand allows it to reach more nerve endings of external erogenous zones so there’s less maneuvering and wider-reaching pleasure. The dome-shaped head of a wand means that in addition to intimate stimulation, these vibrators can also be used for non-sexual muscular massage. 

Thanks to its powerful motor and deep, rumbling vibrations, you can use Emma Neo 2 to soothe sore muscles in your neck, shoulders, lower back, thighs, or other muscle groups holding tension. For a more travel-friendly option, our compact Mini Emma Neo is ideal.

3. Gender-neutral stimulation

Wand vibrators are popular among bodies with a vulva, however, they’re for adults of any body type and gender. For example, adults can use a wand vibrator to stimulate a range of external pleasure zones. Examples include the nipples and perineum (area between the vagina and anus or scrotum and anus). Bodies with a penis can also use wand vibrators on the shaft head and scrotum. 

If you’re exploring new pleasure zones with Emma Neo 2, start with the basic, default mode and lowest intensity because it’s a powerful wand vibrator. Later, you can experiment with other modes and intensities and combine them in different ways as your comfort level allows. Secure the rabbit ears attachment onto the wand head to vary the sensations and stimulation.

4. Solo masturbation and partner play

If you’re looking for ways to boost intimacy and excitement with a partner, wand vibrators can provide an easy and effective solution. These sex toys are equally suited for solo masturbation and couple’s play. 

For example, you can incorporate Mini Emma Neo into partnered scenarios discreetly because of its smaller size. Use the wand head for non-sexual massage or to relieve tension and get in the mood for intimacy and then to stimulate each other’s pleasure zones during foreplay. It can also be used to stimulate external pleasure zones, such as the clitoris, during sexual intercourse to ‘close the orgasm gap’ that often occurs during penis-in-vagina action. If you prefer a longer handle, try Emma Neo 2.

5. Adult video and webcam interaction 

The SVAKOM Emma Neo Series showcases the latest sextech and offers countless ways to play. Emma Neo 2 and Mini Emma Neo pair with the SVAKOM app so you can customize the settings and text chat, video call or share control with a partner at any distance. For example, you can create vibration patterns by using finger drawings, music, and the sounds around you. 

As part of the SVAKOM Connexion Series, Emma Neo 2 and Mini Emma Neo use FeelTechnology, a new feature for our compact wand. Pair either of these new wand vibrators with the FeelConnect 3 App and you can sync with interactive adult video content to feel the on-screen motion. If you want to be the star, use either one with the FeelPerformer.com platform and a compatible webcam site. Let cam viewers control your toy during live shows in exchange for tips.

How to use a wand vibrator

Whether you choose Emma Neo 2 or Mini Emma Neo (or both!), there are some basic tips to make your experience all the more pleasurable. 

1. Prepare

Get to know your wand vibrator by reading the user manual. Ensure your wand vibrator is fully charged and sanitized. Emma Neo 2 and Mini Emma Neo feature a USB-C charging port with protective dust cover and battery lights that indicate the level of charge,

Create a comfortable environment, for example with dim lighting, scented candles, music and erotica. Have some high-quality water-based lubricant nearby, and allow your mind to relax and body to relax. If your session involves a partner, take into account each other’s sexual turn ons and turn offs.

2. Position

Apply lubricant to your wand vibrator and/or bodily areas it will target. (Never insert Emma Neo 2 or Mini Emma Neo anally for safety reasons. Instead, SVAKOM try anal sex toys.)

3. Play

Explore the settings of your wand vibrator. Start slowly and vary the mode and intensity as your comfort level allows. For added comfort and arousal, you might like to use the heating function, which comes with both Emma Neo 2 and Mini Emma and warms part of the wand head. If using Emma Neo 2, try the rabbit ears attachment and notice how it changes the sensations. 

Get even more creative – and aroused – by using your Emma Neo Series wand vibrator with the SVAKOM App to customize settings, try long-distance partner play, and sync with interactive adult video and cam sites. Both wands are waterproof for fun in the bath or shower too.

4. Protect

Sanitize your wand vibrator after use, recharge if needed, using the and then store it in a safe, cool, dark and dry place. Take advantage of the travel lock to prevent the sex toy from accidentally turning on, use the battery lights 

Discover magic with your wand

With so many reasons – and ways – to enjoy the SVAKOM Emma Neo Series, your question is probably which one to choose? We say both!


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