Pleasure and Happiness: How to Boost Sexual Arousal and Satisfaction According to Science

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We all know that feeling. You are enjoying yourself, or yourself with your partner, and all you think about is the present moment, and that fire growing inside of you. It feels good. It feels like a primal call that can be quite hard to explain. And perhaps that’s why you’re here. Because, after all, you’re wondering: what happens, exactly, when I feel those things? What is pleasure? And how does pleasure work? Well, science has answered, and we are here for it.

The hormones of pleasure


All feelings in the human body are about hormones and neurochemicals. In other words, whenever you feel something strong that either aches, burns, or tingles inside of you… It’s not just a feelingan abstract thing – it’s an actual mixture of chemicals and physical reactions taking place within your system. 

In fact, science tells us different sets of hormones are secreted according to varying states of pleasure and arousal.


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What causes sexual pleasure?


The three leading players of the game are dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin. You might have heard of them in science books, but here’s why they’re way more than happy molecules.

 

     DOPAMINE is the main drive behind our search for pleasure. It’s the hormone that keeps us wanting to go back, and back, and yes–back again. When dopamine hits the reward center of your brain, it signals that the experience is pleasurable, and it’d be nice to have it again! The more dopamine spikes during intimacy, the stronger the urge to repeat it will be. 

     ENDORPHINS are like magical mood soothers. According to science, they work like opioids, but they are produced by your own nervous system! In sex, they are triggered by intense and repetitive stimuli. But the peak of endorphin production comes, of course, with orgasm. It’s endorphins that make you feel that remarkable transition from the build-up to release and profound relaxation. You know that “floaty” sensation? That melty feeling right after it? Yup, it’s them.

     SEROTONIN is commonly known as the feel-good hormone. But it’s more than that. When we’re getting aroused, a whole bunch of chemicals start spinning around our brain and entire body. Serotonin actually comes into play to keep everything under control and prevent general feelings of panic and overwhelm. It’s not just about satisfaction and fulfillment; it’s also about calmness and control. It’s like the old lady of the building, coming in to check the party’s not going out of control

 

What happens when I feel aroused?


While sexual pleasure is about the key moment, arousal encompasses everything that comes before. Sexual arousal is about the turn-ons: heart rate increases, the blood flows where it’s needed, lubrication starts, and sensitivity, well, spikes.

The science of arousal is all about hormones that energize. They get your body in the right state–if you know what we mean. Let’s take a look at them.

     TESTOSTERONE and ESTROGEN open the dance of the season. You might think one is just for the guys, and the other for the girls, but we all have both, just in different ratios. Testosterone actually drives libido in all genders. When it’s low, fantasy slacks, and taking initiative doesn’t really come naturally. As for estrogen, it aids vaginal lubrication in women, reducing friction and preparing the body for a comfortable experience, while it serves as a mood stabilizer in men.


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What drives sexual satisfaction?


You might wonder: “Okay, what comes next?” And we, of course, have done our research. The good news is that this mix of chemicals is the perfect recipe to lower your stress. It says quite a lot, doesn’t it? 

OXYTOCIN, the hugging hormone, is the chemical of bonding and making deep connections. It surges in high amounts when we’re having an orgasm, but it’s also triggered by cuddles, kissing, and slow sex. It creates trust and that closeness you might feel when you are with your partner. Oxytocin makes CORTISOL drop, which is why sexual play and sex are great at lowering stress levels. Sexual satisfaction isn’t just about happiness. It’s also about fulfillment, calmness, deep satiety, and bonding. 

Using toys for sexual pleasure

So, can sex toys increase pleasure and arousal? Can they truly accompany the body in achieving the same sensations? Yes, they can. And they can do even more. 

Sex toys support our hormones through a variety of features.

 

1. They stimulate the body in unique ways

While you can only do so much with your hands and body, sex toys are built to offer a wide array of sensations. Trying new things, experimenting, and using new toys are all experiences that add up to releasing extra hormones, increasing blood flow to the genitals, activating more nerves, and boosting dopamine and endorphins. Besides, toys like our Cici 2 vibrator, Erica, or Pulse Lite Neo trigger muscles of the pelvic floor to respond, adapting to the diversity of stimuli applied, as well as your own, unique input.

When you use vibrators, pulsators, and even some anal toys, the blood flow increases, as well as nitric oxide, a molecule able to open blood vessels and create swelling in genital tissues. Not only does the whole body activate, but your circulatory health gets an extra boost of vitality.

 

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2. They add variety by changing the rhythm


Since all SVAKOM sex toys are built with user experience in mind, we have dedicated entire teams to study how to turn our products into life-changing companions. If you know our SVAKOM App Series of toys, you know customization and finding your rhythm are core principles of what we’re developing. All toys in the series can be controlled via our app, where you can either change the pulsation's rhythm by selecting a modality or creating your own. 
 

Our users love the app because it adds variety to your bedroom play while keeping you always in control. When you’re craving a specific feeling, you know where to find it. Want to try something new? Feel free to explore! Would you rather do it at the rhythm of music? Now, you can do that, too. And if you wish to use it with your partner, it’s a great tool to spice up your love life. The app is designed for long-distance control so that you can play even from kilometers away. Plus, when paired with toys made for public play, it can be fun and discreet at the same time.

 

3. They keep it fun by giving you control

Another widely loved benefit our users report is enhanced creativity and fun, whether alone or with their better halves. Since many sexual issues affecting people from all backgrounds and genders are about lack of libido, boredom in the bedroom, and the body not responding the way it “should” or the way it “once did,” sex toys aid by giving you more options, and complete control of the experience.

Sure, hormonal levels will change as you age, but there is no right age for happiness and fulfillment. Sex toys are reliable partners in boosting pleasure hormones at any stage of your self-discovery journey. They put the control of your physical and mental health back in your hands. This is why our entire team at SVAKOM and all of our users love them!


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